The advice on this page is for people who are living with or caring for someone with dementia.
In the early stages of dementia, people are still able to care for themselves in the same way they always have.
As dementia progresses, your loved one may need help with their personal care. Some people might become anxious about personal care tasks like showering or bathing.
For example, they may:
To maintain someone’s dignity, it’s important to recognise that helping someone with their personal care needs to be approached sensitively.
Washing and helping someone go to the toilet are usually private tasks so accepting help can be difficult.
Try these tips to help someone with their personal care:
Find out more information on personal care from Alzheimer Scotland
As a person’s dementia progresses it’s common to experience incontinence. This can be due to:
People with dementia may also forget to go to the toilet or forget where the toilet is. Sometimes they can lose the ability to tell when they need the toilet too.
Incontinence can be difficult to deal with and can be very upsetting for the person you care for. But, it’s important to be understanding and remember that it’s not their fault.
To make going to the toilet easier, you could:
Having a different colour toilet seat helps make the toilet obvious.
Having toilet paper within easy reach of the toilet can make going to the toilet easier.
Maintaining consistency, like using the same colour of towels, can assist with recognition.
You can also ask your GP to refer you to a continence advisor. They can discuss things like waterproof bedding or incontinence pads and other products.
Last updated:
27 May 2024